Bollywood’s Infidelity Debate: Janhvi Kapoor’s Firm Stance Sparks Social Media Firestorm
A recent episode of the Amazon Prime talk show Two Much with Kajol and Twinkle Khanna has ignited a fierce debate across social media, centering on the topic of infidelity in relationships. The episode featured Janhvi Kapoor and Karan Johar as guests, and the conversation quickly turned controversial when the panel discussed whether emotional or physical cheating is worse in a relationship.
Janhvi Kapoor Draws a Firm Line
During the “This or That” segment, Twinkle Khanna posed the question: Is emotional infidelity worse than physical infidelity? Janhvi Kapoor stood her ground, declaring that physical cheating is unacceptable and would be a deal breaker for her in any relationship. Her stance sharply contrasted with Twinkle Khanna, Kajol, and Karan Johar, who suggested that physical infidelity might not always be a relationship-ending issue.
Twinkle Khanna even brushed off the topic with the now-viral phrase, “Raat gayi, baat gayi” (What’s happened, has happened), implying that one should move on from such incidents. Kajol echoed a similar sentiment, emphasizing that long-lasting relationships require compatibility and sometimes forgiveness. However, Janhvi remained unmoved, stressing that loyalty is non-negotiable.
Psychologist Weighs In: Normalizing Cheating Is Emotional Suppression
The viral clip was widely shared by a psychologist, who criticized the views expressed by Kajol, Twinkle, and Karan. She argued that forgiving physical cheating is not forgiveness but emotional suppression, and that justifying infidelity normalizes disrespect. The expert explained that cheating activates the same brain regions as physical pain, which is why betrayal feels so devastating. She emphasized that infidelity is not about age or maturity but about respect and boundaries, and that normalizing cheating is akin to normalizing emotional numbness.
Social Media Backlash and Support for Janhvi
The episode quickly went viral, with netizens overwhelmingly siding with Janhvi Kapoor. Many praised her maturity and clarity, calling her the “only sane one on the show.” Comments flooded in, with users stating, “Normalise loyalty, not betrayal” and “Cheating is cheating—emotional, physical, or even flirting. It’s all about dishonesty and lack of respect”.
Kajol and Twinkle Khanna faced significant criticism for downplaying the seriousness of infidelity. Some users accused them of being conditioned by the Bollywood industry to see cheating as normal, while others expressed pity for their husbands, questioning how anyone could justify infidelity. The phrase “Raat gayi, baat gayi” has since become a trending meme, symbolizing the casual dismissal of cheating in relationships.
Generational Attitudes and Relationship Boundaries
This debate has reignited discussions about fidelity, emotional boundaries, and how generational attitudes toward relationships are shifting. While some viewers found Twinkle and Kajol’s remarks pragmatic, most agreed with the psychologist’s point that forgiveness without accountability often leads to emotional detachment. As one user aptly summarized, “Love without respect isn’t love—it’s just attachment”.
This episode has not only highlighted the generational divide in attitudes toward infidelity but also sparked a broader conversation about respect, boundaries, and the importance of loyalty in relationships. Janhvi Kapoor’s firm stance has resonated with many, reminding audiences that healthy relationships are built on trust and mutual respect.